It’s really difficult to write all this stuff out in a coherent way. This is mostly because it’s very upsetting to me but also because I’m no journalist or book author. On this page, I’m trying to keep the information about doctors' offices in general and include different experiences I’ve had. This includes Lackawanna Valley Dermatology ASSociates, the unnamed pediatrician I went to when I was a kid, an unnamed veterinary clinic I took my dying cat to, and the state medical board. Topics are: signing forms that they didn’t let you read, being told to get undressed for the doctors, being told to bend over for them, being touched without gloves on, and your complaints not being handled properly.
The first thing I want to mention is that doctors like to hide things from their patients through this concept called “general consent.” You would think that you could trust a medical professional but I’m here to tell you not to be so foolish. You walk into a doctor’s office and they ask you to sign some form. They might tell you it has something to do with consent or they might not. They might be very vague and just say “I need you to sign this.” First of all, you have rights. You have the right to what’s called bodily autonomy. You are able to make all your own decisions about your medical treatment. They should not be putting you under anesthesia and just doing whatever they want to you. That being said, they not only hide the stuff that they are doing to you but they hide from you the forms that you are signing with a device like this one:
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NEVER SIGN ANYTHING ON ONE OF THESE SCREENS. They employ this device at Lackawanna Valley Dermatology Associates. This is part of their abuse of patients. They had me sign forms when I went there and they didn’t tell me what they were. Tell them to print everything out. Tell them you have a hard time understanding it or a hard time reading it. Make them read everything to you out loud. It’s the LAW. If you have a disability with your sight or an intellectual disability they have to read it to you. Tell them you got something in your eye the other day and everything is a bit blurry right now. You don’t need prove a disability to them. Don’t let them give you a hard time about it. Always go to the appointments early so you have plenty of time for this. Don’t let them rush you. When they read it they will suddenly feel the guilt of what they are trying to do. Then you could scold them for asking you to sign it without telling you what it was. They put clauses in their consent forms at the colonoscopy places that they are going to do additional procedures to you. They put clauses in there that they are going to take pictures of you and use them for “educational purposes.” Take your pen and cross the whole form out and write down “INFORMED CONSENT ONLY NO EDUCATIONAL PROCEDURES NO ADDITIONAL PROCEDURES”.
They use this device at the veterinary hospital to scam patients as well. I spent a bunch of money at the veterinary clinic when my cat was dying. You go there when your cat is sick and you're all emotional about it. They ask if you want to have the cat resuscitated in the event it goes into cardiac arrest. Then you sign away on that screen. What they didn’t tell you is that that costs an extra 1000 dollars! All your cat needs is an exam to tell what the problem with him is. They could tell you he’s probably a goner. You don’t want to spend thousands hospitalizing your cat for the vets to just torture him. He’s still probably not going to make it. You would rather just put him down and be there with him when he dies! Obviously, the vet clinic hides this from people to make more money. You could imagine that a vet signed up for this career to try to save animals and not just put them down. Too bad! It’s your decision, not theirs. They should be telling you everything about this!
Unfortunately, there are people out there like Marlee Lambert PA-C who signed up to be a dermatologist not because they want to help people with skin conditions but rather, they want to play with people’s penises when they are anesthetized and not tell them about it. It makes a lot of sense. Where do you think you are going to find a sexual predator? At the playground, at the school, and yes, sadly, at a doctors office. They are looking for their next victims. You can find horror stories about people going in for hand surgery and they wake up totally naked with their pubic hair shaved off! It’s absolutely disgusting. I would wake up from a colonoscopy with my legs apart and my penis pitching a tent and the nurses staring at me while their faces are perspiring from what they just witnessed.
The doctors justify what they do by saying “It was in the course of your medical care.” There was no diagnosis given to me. There was no follow up appointment with the dermatologist after they did their exam during my colonoscopy. Most importantly, there was no medications given to me. None of this was in the course of my care. It was in the course of my sexual abuse by a physician. There is no reason why your penis needs to be erected for some doctor to look at it. Not a single guy I know would go to a dermatologist for his penis AT ALL.
The second thing I want to mention is the way that doctors tell you to take your clothes off for them while they are present. This should not be happening to ANYONE. The reason why they do this to men is because they assume you know nothing about how this is supposed to be done. Well, I’m here to educate you.
They trained you since you were a little kid to take this abuse. When I was a kid, the pediatrician would tell me to drop my pants for him for pretty much every “checkup” I had with him. He would then proceed to fondle my genitals with his bare hands. The doctors claim that they can’t wear gloves because then they can’t feel the contents of the scrotum. You should never take this kind of abuse. I never complained about my testicles to any doctor, my parents, or anybody all my life. I call it “training” because then they give you a lollipop at the end. This is called positive reinforcement. Have you ever heard of Pavlov’s dogs experiment? Pedophiles train children to perform sex acts in the same way. I’m sure they like to watch you suck on the lollipop afterwards too.
So now I am an adult and I go to my appointment with the dermatologist. I am in there by myself because I signed some form and they didn’t let me read it. She tells me stand up and pull down my pants and bend over. The reason why she does this is because she thinks I will get turned on by it and get an erection. She wants to get a strip show today. She remembers why she loves her job so much today. I am her favorite patient now. She agreed to see me on such short notice. I probably know tons of guys that would enjoy this. People are perverts. A lot of people just laugh when I them this story. Even the investigator had a smirk. For myself, it’s just plain horrible. It would be horrible for me any way they do it, actually. Matter of fact, the only way they could get my penis to be hard is if I’m knocked out on anesthesia for them. It would never be doing that for a doctor. There’s urologist sites that mention the causes for erectile dysfunction and one of them that they mention is anxiety. Really, I think it’s not a dysfunction. Rather, I think it has evolved to be that way. You should not be maintaining an erection while your adversary is nearby wielding sharp implements. It would be detrimental to your survival. What type of sick prick would get a woody for the doctor? The doctors are supposed to be putting you into a hospital robe for any kind of exam. You shouldn’t have any part of your body exposed in that room that is not going to be examined. They should not be telling you to get undressed for them or any other thing to try to get you sexually excited.
I don’t suppose that the reason why she did this is because she goes home to have sex with her husband and they do doctor patient role play. In that case, she has to tell me to strip for her because it’s the less exciting thing for her. This is absolutely comical.
You shouldn’t be told to “bend over” for anybody either. It’s not a safe position for your back to be in. They should have you laying down, or a the least, leaning on something to support yourself. I assert that they prefer this unsafe method because it’s part of their sexual abuse. Marlee really enjoyed telling me to bend over. You could tell by the tone of her voice. I wasn’t asked how I wanted to do this exam. I was instructed like a command to do these things for her. The physicians abuse their power that they have over their patients for their sexual gratification. If a doctor tells you to bend over then just scold them, tell them that that was rude, that you have a bad back, and that you refuse to do that.
The third thing I want to mention here is how the doctors lie to cover up the abuse. I went to the pediatricians office to get my medical records when I turned 18. The only paper they gave me was a record of vaccines. Nothing at all in there about all the times he grabbed my scrotum. I went to get my medical records from the dermatologist. There was nothing in there about all the dermatology exams they did to me when I was under anesthesia. The only things were about the two appointments that I had with Marlee. When I complained to Marlee during the last appointment about how I was treated, she didn’t apologize to me. She put down a lie in the medical chart. “Patient was using vulgar language with me the entire time.” You know it’s a lie because of the hyperbole. What did I say that was so vulgar? Nobody says “gluteal cleft” people just say “ass crack”. I received this letter from the doctor that claims I made disparaging comments to her. He knew the letter would piss me off. It provoked me to write nasty reviews about him. When the reviews wouldn’t get posted I made this site. If the examination that you have to go through at a doctors office involves a chaperon, just know that that person is there to protect the doctor. Unfortunately, you need to setup an app on your phone to secretly record the whole thing. It’s your own doctor appointment. You need to protect yourself. It’s the only way. In pennsylvania, you need the doctor's consent to record them. I don't care! Throw me in jail! I'm not going through this again! She also lied in the chart about another treatment option. She said to me “that’s all I got for you”, but in the chart she put down that I prefer a steroid medication and I don't want this other one. It makes me absolutely sick that somebody I should be able to trust with my care would put down lies like this.
The last thing I want to mention: You can complain to the medical board but the medical board is made up of doctors. Why does this matter? I’ll tell you why. It’s like having pedophiles sentenced by a jury of other pedophiles. Of course the doctors protect the other doctors. That makes no sense at all. There should be a jury of patients to address doctor misconduct. Maybe I’ll write to the legislators about this.
This is the letter that was sent to me by Lackawanna Dermatology Associates after I complained to the staff behind the counter about how I was treated and demanded ALL my records.
This is the poorly written medical chart with wrong information and lies.
